Archive for the 'BDSM' Category

31
Oct

A Short Week In Kink (#15)

Photos of Rachel Kramer Bussel by HilaryMcHonePhotography.com

Photos of Rachel Kramer Bussel by HilaryMcHonePhotography.com

Catalina’s Favorite Sex Blog Posts Of The Week!  Vote on Tuesday for Obama!!

CatalinaLoves.com:

CatalinaSays.com:

BestSexBloggers.com:

Marky D. Sade:

Backdoor Bondage Blog:

The Bondage Channel Blog:

Mz Berlin’s Blog:

The Urban Gypsy:

Over The Top Kinky:

Waking Vixen:

Nawalochai:

::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::

18
Oct

The Week In Kink (#14)

Trust Me... Does That Look Like A Girl Who Would Steer You Wrong?

Catalina’s Favorite Sex Blog Posts Of The Week!  Thanks to Altered Aperture who makes me all pretty and then captures it on camera time and time again.

CatalinaLoves.com:

CatalinaSays.com:

BestSexBloggers.com:

Backdoor Bondage Blog:

Into The Attic Blog:

Thursday’s Child:

Dungeon Place:

Mz Berlin’s Blog:

Ms. Nikki Nefarious:

Shared Cindy:

The Urban Gypsy:

Sweltering Celt:

Leather Yenta:

Debauched Domestic Diva:

Curvaceous Dee:

The Butterfly Temptress:

::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::

10
Oct

The Week In Kink (A Baker’s Dozen!)

Catalina by AlteredAperture.com

Catalina by AlteredAperture.com

Catalina’s Favorite Sex Blog Posts Of The Week!

CatalinaLoves.com:

CatalinaSays.com:

BestSexBloggers.com:

MarkyDSade.com:

Backdoor Bondage Blog:

Nawalochai.com:

Into The Attic Blog:

Thursday’s Child:

Over The Top Kinky:

Bad Bad Girl:

Confessions From My Open Marriage:

Mz Berlin’s Blog:

Satine Phoenix’s Blog:

Ms. Nikki Nefarious:

TruFetish.com:

Ellie Lumpesse: Pretentious Pervert:

The Urban Gypsy:

Sweltering Celt:

Debauched Domestic Diva:

Happiness is a Dominant Woman:

::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::

03
Oct

The Week In Kink (#12)

Image of Amber Rayne Courtesy of BackdoorBondageBlog.com

Catalina’s Favorite Sex Blog Posts Of The Week!

CatalinaLoves.com:

CatalinaSays.com:

MarkyDSade.com:

BackdoorBondageBlog.com:

Nawalochai.com:

IntoTheAttic Blog:

Waking Vixen:

The Accidental Blowjob:

Radical Vixen:

Mz Berlin’s Blog:

Satine Phoenix’s Blog:

Sugarbutch Chronicles:

Ms. Nikki Nefarious:

TruFetish.com:

Ellie Lumpesse: Pretentious Pervert:

Debauched Domestic Diva:

Sweltering Celt:

BestSexBloggers.com:

::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::

26
Sep

The Week In Kink (#11)

Image Courtesy of http://dungeonplace.com/

Image Courtesy of http://dungeonplace.com/

Sex Blog Picks For The Week!  Send your best/favorite post to me at CatalinaLoves@gmail.com and I will take a look at it.  If it passes the Catalina loves… test, then I’ll use it in The Week In Kink, which is posted at TheWeekInKink.com and cross-posted all over teh internets.

CatalinaLoves.com:

CatalinaSays.com:

MarkyDSade.com:

BackdoorBondageBlog.com:

Nawalochai.com:

IntoTheAttic.com/Blog:

Essin’ Em: Sexuality Happens:

The Accidental Blowjob:

The Femmes Guide:

Mistress Matisse’s Journal:

Mz Berlin’s Blog:

Satine Phoenix’s Blog:

Lady Sascha’s Blog:

Sugarbutch Chronicles:

Alessia Brio:

BestSexBloggers.com:

::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::

19
Sep

The Week in Kink (#10)

Sex Blog Picks For The Week!  Send your best/favorite post to me at CatalinaLoves@gmail.com and I will take a look at it.  If it passes the Catalina loves… test, then I’ll use it in The Week In Kink, which is posted at TheWeekInKink.com and cross-posted all over teh internets.  I’m considering posting it on Sunday.  There is something extra naughty about posting the kinkiest stuff I can find on Sunday.

CatalinaLoves.com:

CatalinaSays.com:

MarkyDSade.com:

BackdoorBondageBlog.com:

Nawalochai.com:

IntoTheAttic.com:

Whipped Pussy Blog:

The Accidental Blowjob:

The Femmes Guide:

The Stranger:

Mz Berlin’s Blog:

Lady Sascha’s Blog:

BestSexBloggers.com:

Satine Phoenix’s Blog:

::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::

14
Sep

The Week In Kink (#9)

http://satinesblog.com

http://satinesblog.com

Sex Blog Picks For The Week!  I’ve been trying to decide how to do The Week in Kink now that normally the people I would feature are almost all on BestSexBloggers.com.  One thing I want to try is a call for submissions.  Send your best/favorite post to me at CatalinaLoves@gmail.com and I will take a look at it.  If it passes the Catalina loves… test, then I’ll use it in The Week In Kink, which is posted at TheWeekInKink.com and cross-posted all over teh internets.

CatalinaLoves.com:

CatalinaSays.com:

MarkyDSade.com:

BackdoorBondageBlog.com:

Nawalochai.com:

IntoTheAttic.com:

The Accidental Blowjob:

The Femmes Guide:

Dungeonplace.com:

Mz Berlin’s Blog:

Lady Sascha’s Blog:

BestSexBloggers.com:

::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::

13
Sep

The Week In Kink Just Got Kinkier! (Sugasm #146)

Image by PhotosByPriapus.com

Image by PhotosByPriapus.com

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #147? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom.

This Week’s Picks
Nipple clamps, butt plug, Hitachi - oh my!
“Once the plug is in, I’m going to send you on a little walk.”

I discover transcendental orgasm
“It was peaceful, and like holding on to a live wire at the same time.”

When We Were Kids: Thoughts on BDSM
“The tying was always my favourite part, whether I was the one tied who had to escape, or the one who got to do the tying.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Like a Prayer - Part 2

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Bite Me
Chess
Lunch Date
On the phone
People we’ve always wanted to be
Submitting Again: Part 3
Top
Webcam
While it rains outside…
Your Gorgeous Polish Girlfriend does not feel like having sex tonight

Sex Work
The Age of Porn: Performers, Attraction, and Age
So there I was, with a caller…
The Whore in the House Next Door

NSFW pics
Dana by Goncharov (Met Art)
Fetish Model & PornSLUTkitty Gets Her Head Tattooed
A Fully Naked HHNT
Not a masochist

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
The Lelo Mia
Nea: by Lelo
Njoy’s Amazing Butt Plugs - A Sex Toy Review
Sex News Roundup

BDSM & Fetish
After the Party … (part III)
Catalina loves Naughty Secretary Roleplay
Charlotte Vale And I (Mz Berlin) In Bondage Gangbang On The Training Of O
The Enigmatic Angel’s Kinky Cinematic Journey
The Pleasure Of Torment
Push Button Behavior Modification
The Sarge And Backdoor Bondage Have Great Impact Play And Hogtied Style Bondage Content
Shoes, it’s really all about the shoes.
Snap, Crackle, and Pop
Whipped Pussy Reminds You To Always Keep A Spare In The Trunk

Sex Advice
Help, my boyfriend won’t go down on me!

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Can A Threesome Help You Find Your True Love?
Eco Sex and Green BDSM
Femme is a Noun, an Adjective, a Verb…
If You are Charming Smart, but Ugly, I Fuck You For Sure!
It’s a struggle.
Stripper Milf versus Stripper Teen: 69 points to ponder
Where The Hell Did My Boobs Go?

28
Aug

The Week In Kink Presents Sugasm #144 - BestSexBloggers.com (Audacia Ray) is Editor’s Choice!

Favorite by Erocrush.com

Favorite by Erocrush.com

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #145? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
Bush Rides Again: Birth Control Defined as “Abortion”?
“The reason you tweak laws, redefining them or broadening their definitions, is to create the opportunity for a legal climate in which challenges may better succeed.”

First Time For Everything: A Polyamorous Relationship
“The only real trouble with being a triad came from the world around us.”

Sex Work And Compassion: Panty Tree
“I will never feel shame for being a sex worker.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
I Meet the Business End of Citibank’s Anti-Adult Business Policy

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Dreams
Needs. I has them.
On Feeling June Cleaverish
Saturday Night
Strippers and race
The Sunday Squirt
Under the Covers
Whenever we’re apart…

Sex Humor
Impertinent Question: Do You Name Your Genitals?

BDSM & Fetish
Anatomy of a Mindfuck
Brutal caning punishments for school girls’ filthy behaviour
Caning; La marca del deseo.
Claire Adams Does Some Wonderful Shibari Rigging In This Scene From The Whipped-Pussy Archives
Mz Berlin (Me!) & Madison Young In Bondage Slave Training
Ring Around the Collar
Two school girls in uniform spanked and caned over the bench.
Witch Stories
Whoring Hubby Spanked - F/m Spanking Pix

Sex Advice
Ask Miss Bliss-My Girlfriend’s Using Coke And Lying About It
Controlling the Urge to Ejaculate
How To Pick A Dildo
Pull My Hair, Slap Me Around - A How-To Guide To Rough Sex, Part 1

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Catalina loves Masculinity
It’s been a while - lots of stuff going on!
Satine Phoenix Says, “Save thousands on therapy, go to your reunion!!?”
Wax On; Wacks Off

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Fetish Model Toxxxy In Cotton Panties Smearing Jam All Over Herself
FunseXXXtoys Public Baptismal
The Jollie Review For Babeland
Sex on Spout
Sgt Major Makes Jade Marxxx Beg For Pain On Backdoor Bondage
Spanking interview with Thomas S. Roche

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Bedroom Radio #21: Sinclair Sexsmith of Sugarbutch.net
Elaisted is to Corset Photography what Phelps is to Swimming!
Photo Essay

Sex & Politics
The Dilemma of Jefferson: My Dissenting Voice
Friends of Jefferson, Spanking for Justice!

Note: While the Sugasm is back there are still a few bugs to sort out. The submission form isn’t working. For now please send your submission to me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom If you don’t see your post above it probably got lost during the server move. The featured pic will be returning soon. Thanks for your patience!

24
Aug

Fetlife.com - By Real Kinksters For Real Kinksters!

It’s official. Marky D. Sade and I have accepted a proposal to work with Fetlife.com as their marketing department. We are actively seeking new relationships with companies, large and small, who are interested in advertising their products or events on the best fetish social networking site. What makes Fetlife.com the best adult, fetish, kinky, social networking site on the internet? Well, take a minute to read what Jane’s Guide had to say about it:

Take a moment and imagine a leather Facebook or Myspace, and then imagine it being run by and for kinky folks. That is exactly what Fetlife is! It is the coolest new community site out there for pervs, and it is absolutely 100% free. I had been hearing the buzz about this new spot on the web from a few of my lifestyle friends, and I finally decided to go set up an account and take a look myself. Many years ago I had been on other sites that promised community and allowed free communication, but since those sites have sold to other companies their soul has left the building and communication costs money. It is also communication that is no longer under the nurturing ownership of perverts with a personal interest in our tribe. I’d lost interest, and so had most of my friends. I was hoping that this site could be some of what I was missing on the old ones. Wow, I wasn’t disappointed! I immediately ran into some of my old friends, and then ran off to recruit new ones. It is easy to sign up. Once you have, then you set up a profile. You can add pics to it, and you’ll never run into that “you have to have such and such membership” to view pics or show them to others. There are social groups here with ongoing forum conversations, so you can sign up for topics that interest you (or create your own groups). There is a mail system that acts like a personal bulletin board for private conversations, so you don’t lose track of what has been said to anyone. You can post writing, see what your friends are doing, and a lot more. A lot of talented pervs are posting writing and engaging in conversation here. I’ve met a lot of new friends. There is a small amount of advertising, but it is done really tastefully and never gets in the way. You can write to the folks that run the site, and they will actually write you back. I’ve been in love with this place and raving about it for the last several weeks. This is one of the few sites that didn’t ask for review. I sought out the owner and asked him if I could post one. It is that good. I feel like I’m giving you guys an early Christmas gift. Go check it out! This is the next big kinky community site! They are going to be huge, and they will stay huge as long as they keep the spirit that they have now. - Vamp

To highlight: “There is a small amount of advertising, but it is done really tastefully and never gets in the way.” and “This is the next big kinky community site! They are going to be huge, and they will continue to stay huge…”

We couldn’t be more proud! It’s all true, too. One thing we love about being a part of the Fetlife team is that we are able to work with you, one-on-one, through each step of the way to get your ad placed in just the right spot. You can advertise broadly across the entire network, or we can target by location (country or state) and by gender (M,F,MtF,FtM and or GQ), thereby optimizing your advertising money by targeting your market, the kinksters who are looking for your company or product!

We only display three ads per page, all static and nicely placed in the F-zone. You’re not competing for attention. People will and do see them, but as Vamp pointed out in her review, they aren’t obnoxious and annoying. We’ll keep it that way! We want to continue to build Fetlife the way it was intended - by (real) Kinksters for (real) Kinksters!

For more information on advertising on Fetlife.com, please contact us at mark@fetlife.com or catalina@fetlife.com. And feel free to grab that banner up above and link it from your site to Fetlife.com. :)

22
Aug

The Week In Kink Announces Lochai’s New Position at Hogtied.com (Kink.com)

Lochai "working" at Hogtied.com

SAN FRANCISCO (August 22, 2008) – Award-winning fine art bondage photographer Lochai will take over from Matt Williams as director of Kink.com’s Hogtied.com, the company announced today.

“Hogtied was our first site and we still consider it our flagship,” said Kink.com founder and CEO Peter Acworth. “We’re very pleased to bring Lochai on to continue the Hogtied tradition. He’s one of the best-known bondage riggers around and for years he’s been out there in the community, both as a photographer and as an educator. Most importantly, he really gets what’s fun and beautiful and hot about women in bondage – he understands the Kink.com esthetic. I’m very much looking forward to working with him.”

Lochai’s inaugural update on Hogtied.com is a sizzling 56-minute scene with 22-year-old Virginian beauty Isobel Wren. Shot when Lochai was auditioning for his new role, the scene currently headlines the site, In it, Wren is placed in Lochai’s trademark Japanese-influenced rope bondage and subjected to a stunning number of screaming orgasms, including a copious squirt. Throughout, Lochai’s sardonic humor tempers the intense bondage and stimulation.

Said Lochai:

“Everything that’s done in any of the Kink.com sites is real, so it’s not like I’m acting a part. I’m actually being myself. I’m sarcastic, I’m a smart ass, I laugh during scenes and I also console when someone’s upset. I’m going to be doing my real play, my real life, within the walls of the Armory, because that’s what’s expected by the customers — and that’s what’s expected by Kink.com. I’m going to be super comfortable there, because I feel like I’m home.”

An award winning photographer whose work appears in galleries as well as in publications like The British Journal of Photography, Secret, Skin Two, Bizarre, and in his own fine art books, Lochai is equally well known as a bondage educator, teaching classes at conferences around the United States and doing public scenes in nightclubs and at fetish events. A founding director of the Photo Artisans Guild (PAG), in West Palm Beach Florida, he was also the co-founder and co-curator of the Traveling Erotic Art Show, which spent two years touring the United States. He also moderates a group on BDSM social networking site FetLife, CommUNITY Building, that seeks to build BDSM and alternative sexuality leadership skills.

Lochai takes over from longtime Hogtied.com director Matt Williams, who began directing the site in 2003. Williams was recently promoted to Kink.com’s Creative Director, and will be guiding creative development on new sites as well as Kink.com’s existing sites. “I’m looking forward to helping with the overall creative level,” said Williams. “I’m going to work with existing sites and new sites both, developing the look and feel, and sharing fantasies that I have in my head — I have great ideas for each one of our sites.”

Williams will continue to direct unscripted girl-girl erotic wrestling site UltimateSurrender.com, which he calls “my little baby.” “I’m going to hang on to that – I have some great ideas for the future.”

Lochai expressed his excitement about his new role.

“Every person who’s ever sat down in front of me in a classroom, or who has surrounded me out in a club to watch what I’m doing, has wanted this job. They want to get paid to tie up beautiful women and get them off – and that’s my job. It’s a wonderful feeling, and an affirmation that my kink pays off.”

A longtime Florida resident, Lochai will be relocating in September to the San Francisco area. He says he’ll continue his work teaching bondage and SM lifestyle classes, both at the half-dozen conferences he traditionally attends annually, and in the San Francisco area.

For more information about Lochai, visit his site Kirinawa.com or email the Kink.com Public Relations Manager at thomas@kink.com. Webmasters interested in promoting Kink.com content, including Hogtied.com, please visit www.KinkyDollars.com or email the Kink.com affiliate manager at terry@kink.com.

ABOUT HOGTIED.COM: Hogtied was the first site in the Kink.com network, directed by founder Peter Acworth from 1997 until Matt Williams took over in 2003. Updated every Tuesday, Hogtied.com offers members more than 15,000 streaming minutes and more than 84,000 photos in over 400 episodes that feature beautiful women subjected to sexual rope bondage, erotic punishment, and repeated orgasms.

ABOUT KINK.COM: San Francisco erotica studio Kink.com provides authentic fetish entertainment that seeks to demystify alternative sexualities and inspire sexual adventurers. Since the launch of its first site, Hogtied.com, in 1997, Kink.com has developed a network of premium adult sites that now operate from studios in the San Francisco Armory, a decommissioned National Guard facility with sets ranging from stark dungeons to luxurious pieds-à-terre. Kink.com also operates a free documentary site at BehindKink.com and the leading fetish affiliate network, KinkyDollars.com.

22
Aug

The Week in Kink (#8b)

ProPhotoTours.com - Side-by-Side, Start-to-Finish Photographic Workshops

ProPhotoTours.com - Side-by-Side, Start-to-Finish Photographic Workshops

Last week I took the easy way out and sent you to BestSexBloggers.com.  This week I did my homework!  I included blogs that aren’t on BestSexBloggers.com.  Of course I’ll start with a synopsis of our own blogs.  We haven’t been writing as much of our own content - this week we became the marketing department for Fetlife.com.  If you haven’t checked out Fetlife yet, what are you waiting for?  It’s the best social networking site for kinky people just like you!

This week’s Week In Kink is brought to you by the caffeine and nicotine keeping me awake to write it.

Catalina Loves:

Catalina Says:

Mr. and Mrs. Kink.com:

Breathplay.info:

Sgt. Major’s Briefing Room:

Mz Berlin’s Blog:

Satine Phoenix’s Blog:

Lady Sascha, Cocktease Extraordinaire:

Waking Vixen: